Jose, do you believe that after you die, that you will see the people who you have loved in this life, or do you believe that we just die, and that's it, all that love we felt here, is just over and gone.

Good question........I believe that we will all be reunited after death, but we won't remember the ones that we loved, it will be like making new friends and we will fall in love all over again, without the pain and hurt, afterall, heaven is a good place where we will live out our destiny. I pray that I am reunited with my Angel, I know that she watched over all the people that she so much loved. I even think that because of who she was, that in spite of everything she even watches over "loverboy" and keeps him safe from harm. She was and always will be MY ANGEL.

Holy Meataballs, I'ma a gooda church going boy anda I too believe wea willa all be together oncea again. I'ma gonna see Maria who brokea my hearta and Theresa who broker my b a l l s and Rosa that nicea Italian girla who showeda me she knewa how to grease my dishes.

Mr. Josea I hope that somedaya you meeta againa your Angel.

I do to Tony. She was a good person who didn't deserve the treatment that she got. May she rest in peace.

I knowa you knowa likea this other "loverboy" butta whata dida he doa exactly thata getta everyone soa upsetta? I reada he married, so whya no leavea his wifea for the Angel?? Do anyone ever seea this guya, I betta hea notta carea onea meataball thatta shea dead. We Italians havea namea for him +++++++. I'a feela sorry fora you Jose anda your pora Angel sucha shamea, my prayers are for youa.

Jose, I think your story is awesome. I know you will met up with Kathy one day. What I don't understand, and I truly mean no disrespect, is why did she get involved with a married guy with a family? From everything I've read about her, she seems to have a head on her shoulders and morals. Why get involved with a family with children? This part of the story confuses me.

Jose, can you give us more information about the "Lover Boy". For example his age, his initials, his occupation, etc.

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Originally posted by amazed:
Jose, I think your story is awesome. I know you will met up with Kathy one day. What I don't understand, and I truly mean no disrespect, is why did she get involved with a married guy with a family? From everything I've read about her, she seems to have a head on her shoulders and morals. Why get involved with a family with children? This part of the story confuses me.

This person that my Angel fell in love with was married for alot of years, he probably fell out of love at some point, all their children were grown and married with grandkids, he told my Angel he would find a way for them to be together, at one point she became very guilty over the whole thing and wanted to break the whole thing off, he begged, pleaded for her to be patient that he would find a way for them to be together, she relented. At no time did she ever do anything to "push" the situation, which I'm certain she could have, but she loved him beyond words and he was very cruel to her towards the end, hurtful and cruel, I don't know if he ever intended to really leave his wife or if it was just a cruel way of getting attention for himself. He "never" in all these years has contacted anyone and he knows several people e-mail address to get in touch. He did more damage to someone whose only crime was to love him and want to be with him at all costs. He in return, destroyed her without even a goodbye.

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Jose, can you give us more information about the "Lover Boy". For example his age, his initials, his occupation, etc.

Herb, as much as I would love to hurt this man, I will honor my Angels one request not to do anything to hurt him.....I will say he is retired, over 70 now and has the same initial as me J.

Thanks Jose. It is not the person I know although the age is right, but not the initials.

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Herb, as much as I would love to hurt this man, I will honor my Angels one request not to do anything to hurt him.....I will say he is retired, over 70 now and has the same initial as me J.

Josea you wantta fight thisa guy? Bigga hurtta ya, I'ma thinking you gotta something onna thissa guy? Hee hee hee, thissa story is fulla suspense, lovea, hatea, boya lovea girla, boya dumpa girla, girla poof dead, noa onea likea loverboya, sucha shame, sucha shame, hea probably crya ina his soupa or on wifea shoulder. Hee, hee, hee, ha ha ha. I'ma justta lonely boy, lonely and blue, I'ma all alone witha nothing to doa.

Tony, for the life of me, I can't understand what made this guy go off the way he did, she was a single women, he married, he got good and p i**ed that she darn speak to someone else, give me a break, I wanted her back for years, I would have done anything to get her back, but I also knew she would see other people, have dinner whatever, he on the otherhand, was married, he chose to stay with his wife, he could have left and he could have had 6 happy years with my Angel, I would have been happy for them, all I ever wanted was for her to be happy. He chose to lead a double life, was that fair to his wife, of course not, maybe she didn't care, who knows, maybe still she doesn't care, he has to live with it, I did all I could do to be the best person I could be for the love of my life, and I kept every promise to her before her death and after, I have no regrets. He won't dare write to me or anyone else because he knows she didn't deserve the treatment that he gave her.

Jose, its so sad that one man could do so much damage to one person, how could he hurt someone that loved him so much. When I think of how hurt she must have been, I get tears in my eyes, if my boyfriend/lover were to do something like that, I think I'd do something back to hurt him just as well, says alot for your Angel that she didn't go for his jugular vein, I would have wanted blood from him for just putting me through the aggravation of not knowing what was wrong. The girl (your Angel) that I knew would have ripped his head off and probably would have gone to his wife, she must have loved him sooooo much and had good control not to want blood. I'm sure you remember the night she got into a git of a fight with Arlene from Morris Ave., by the time it was all over, Arlene was down on the ground begging K to let her up, it took you, and two other fellows to get K off of Arlene. LOL She was a spitfire back in those days. Great memories.

Jose,

I dont know if you recall my story with long-lost love, but I finally caught up with my high-school love forty years later, and time had stood still, or so it seemed when we met again. I thank G od that my love for her never died. We still communicate, and those feelings still kick in every time. I just heard from her that she was laid off from her job, and my heart broke after listening to her talking about the financial hardship she may have to endure. It took me back to a better time, and the many wonderful memories of being together in the Bronx, walking through Parkchester as a couple of teenagers. Jose, we are truly blessed that our feelings are so strong for someone we love after so many years, even at the expense of the pain we have to endure occasionally. I am thankful that I still feel the way I do forty years later....in love with my girl....time has stood still for us.

Steve Heller

I sometimes wish that for just one hour I could see/talk to my Angel one more time, although I think I said all I needed to say, I still want to say more, just one more hour. We too had some hurtful moments, being a young latino, I did some stupid things that I really shouldn't have done and I regretted it once it was done. I followed her career for years, going to concerts, always in the shadows, then I finally had the courage to call her and we met, and as you said, time stood still, for several hours I was 21 again, she was 15, her smile still the same, that look she would give me, all else didn't matter, my heart has always belonged to her and always will till this ole heart gives out.

Poor Jose, I can feel your hurt, you know Angel and I talked maybe once a month, she'd tell me this and that, when she told me about this great love, I told her to be careful, go slow, that maybe he wasn't everything he said he was, being a married man I told her he probably won't leave his wife. If I could talk to her one more time I would have told her don't get your hopes up, he's playing you. She was pretty wise as far as men went, she wouldn't settle for just anyone that's why she stayed single so long, she wanted real love, someone she could trust with her life, someone who shared the same things she enjoyed and loved.
Jose you can't change the past, but you can change the present and future, she always had a place in her heart for you, even with all the things you pulled, she forgave you and trusted you in the end to do all that she asked. You did exactly that, you day you both will meet again and you will be those two kids from 183rd St that laughed and held hands, one day that time will come. Jose be at peace, your Angel is I'm sure.

Ha, your finally growing up there kid, getting wiser about life and the good and the bad. Do you know how many people told her to be careful, playing with people you meet on the internet is serious business, you have to be so careful. Luckily, she didn't end up dead, she was taken in by a couple of things and she was head over heels in love with him, she would have moved to the end of the earth for him. He played her big time, I couldn't stop her, she told me I was jealous, no I wasn't but I was concerned, I didn't want her to get hurt, and he hurt her beyond what he had to, to see a person reduced to nothing because of some jerk, M you know she didn't deserve it, yet, he coldly, cruely, destroyed her for no reason, thats the irony of it all, it didn't have to end the way it did. Yes, one day we will all meet again, I can't wait.

Dear dear Jose, its taken me years to finally figure out whats right and wrong, took me a long time, a few mistakes along the way, but now able to collect SS I have figured it all out. I think. I can't for the life of me, understand why--I mean she didn't do him any harm, she opened her heart to him and the moron stumped on it and if he could have made her bleed I think he would have done it, I never met him, but the way she talked about him you would have thought he was G od, she was totally convinced by every word he said that he was going to follow through, I think he knew exactly what he was doing and when the heat was turned up, he had to find a way to get off the fire, what a a s swipe, still he couldn't just say look this or that in a phone conversation or e-mail. The hairy a s swipe doesn't have too many people in his corner. Imagine his hairy ass wife going to bed with this jerk everynight thinking he's so faithful and loving, she should know what he did while she was away.
Jose, you have the patience of a saint, not to go after this jerk. He deserves no happiness at all, he totally ruined my BFF and that I will never forgive, I hope he rots in hell.

Be well be strong be positive.....life is short.

M, life is strange, as much as I loved my Angel, your dear friend, I couldn't convince her that she was heading for trouble. Even I wished that she would finally find happiness if not with me, than someone who would take good care of her, she needed someone strong to rely on, I thought maybe this was the one, after all he sounded sincere, had morals (I think)and I think wanted the same as she did, why it took a turn for the worst I'll never know, I only know what she told me, which I don't think she would make this all up, I mean she had soo much to back up everything she said, it was all there. I don't know if he flipped out or what but mentally he did a number on her, and I wonder if he did the same with his own wife, well, he got it his way, he dumped her, he stayed with his family and halfwitted wife, I really hope he's happy with the decision he made. As I've said I have a clear conscience, I did what I was able to do, can't say the same for "loverboy" he didn't do s*(^.

Jose, I agree with you on most of what you said, anyone who knew K knew that she would never never hurt anyone, she was a strong person and rarely ever showed any emotion to anyone, she hid her problems very well, and always put on a happy face, I could always tell if there was something amiss in her voice, I didn't have to see her, yet, I could hear it in her voice, she was very frustrated by the whole thing, one day she was going to NJ, next he'd tell her no don't come, then yes, come, then no he was driving her plain crazy, I thought he was lossing it too, I think he was playing her big time, we'd talk on the phone sometimes till 3AM, she bought airplane tickets to go, then he'd say no don't come, she lost hundreds of dollars in airfare, did he care, hell no, as long as it didn't get him into ho t water at home, always thinking of himself, don't ruin my happy home, I really hope that one day, his family sees him for what he is, or maybe they already do, he took the heart and soul of my BF and ripped it out, tossed it like a piece of garbage and let her die, for what? A couple of hours conversation so he could feel like Romeo, he was playing with a human life, a good person who would have done anything for anyone without so much as a thank you, that's who she was, I hate this man sooo very much because he took from me the best person I had the honor to know.

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